Explaining Funeral Services and Burial Preparation to a Child
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One of the more challenging topics within a loss discussion is that of funeral services, burial and cremation. When preparing for these conversations, it will be important to think about what exposure a young person has already had with funerals and or memorial services. This context can help guide conversation.
Below are some questions to consider when explaining these rituals to children.
Create opportunities for the child to help with planning or participate in other family rituals such as picking pictures for a collage board or choosing an item to be placed in casket. Never assume or force a child to do something they are not comfortable doing. Ask permission and offer choices when appropriate. When possible, have a point person assigned to any child who may need a break during the service. They can be helpful in taking them for a walk or having an activity bag packed for distraction.
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